21 lessons in 21 years

Yesterday was my 21st Birthday, woo! In my 21 years, I have learnt a thing or two about myself, other people and I guess a little bit about life itself. (I promise I won't go too deep haha) So, I thought I would share with you my 21 lessons or thoughts that I have learnt in 21 years.

1. Screw what people might say! If you want to do something, then you should do it. There's always going to be someone that criticises you so you might as well get on with it!

2. Life is too short to hold grudges.

3. Dreams can come true, if you work hard and try hard enough.

4. Some people will screw you over, accept it and move on.

5. I don't need a man to be happy/ I am okay and happy being single.

6. I am stronger than what I ever thought, I can get through anything.

7. Practice makes perfect.

8. Happiness and walking away from a situation is the best revenge.

9. If something or someone does not make you happy, ditch it and cut them out of your life.

10. Do not gossip

11. Stay away from toxic people

12. Not everyone you meet is meant to stay in your life, some people are temporary.

13. Not everyone is going to like you or agree with you and that is okay!

14. Know your worth, don't settle for less.

15. Stop comparing myself to everyone. Everyone is going at their own pace and are at their own stage in life. It's okay to be behind or in front of others.

16. It's okay to not have life figured out at 16. It's okay to change your mind if something doesn't fit or work out.

17. Small progress is still progress.

18. Love yourself first before you love anyone else.

19. Talk about how you feel, always, no matter how hard or hurtful it may be to someone else.

20. Be honest, no matter what.

21. Be brave, be bright and be courageous. 

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